You have an idea and you don't want to tell anyone for fear of it getting copied...this is healthy paranoia and it is good to keep your ideas close to your chest...the problem is that you can only trust the people you know and unfortunately this leaves you wide open to all types of advice like these...
- People that mean well but really have no idea what to do
- People that have some idea but want to protect you from "failure"
- People that have paranoid conspiracy theories that justify commenting on life but not living it
- People that know what they are saying but have ulterior motives
- Super conservative advice
- Super risky advice
- Extremely good advice at the right time (I hope this happens for you)
- and people that rave on and on when they've had a little drink or two (including me and most people I know)

So that covers pretty much everyone, what now?
You simply choose two people you trust, make sure you choose them because you respect their opinion...keep in mind, as your business and experience grows you should be looking for somebody you respect that knows more than you on certain subjects so your advisors will change.
Try and get two opposites ie a conservative person and a risk taker...they don't have to know each other.
The idea is, when you need an opinion (advice) you can ask the same question of both and find a middle ground...then here's the important bit...YOU make the decision.
Some easy rules - Never ask for advice always ask for an opinion. Make sure you take an opinion (advice) as just that...it is not an order because as said above you make the decision and finally, always remember that the decision was made with all the information available to you at the time...so stick by it, move on and don't regret it by using 20;20 hindsight.

